Wow, first world problems right here.

I'm grumpy about my vacation not being great.

Cry me a river! Are you even paying for any of this vacation other than buying yourself stuff?

Jeez.

[edit] I should have summoned a lot of people so they would feel sorry for me...

[edit again] If you want to have fun on your vacation then have fun! Your vacation is only ruined because you are letting it get ruined.

I just got back from an actual vacation from hell.

And I wouldn't have traded any of it for the world.

I truly do not understand how any of that vacation of yours is awful.

She just wants to rant. You don't have to act like her problems don't matter to her, it's not you they're affecting socyou aren't even too sure.

You don't know what memories or anything could have been brought back up that she didn't want to share.

No reason to be rude, if you have nothing good to say, don't say it at all.

We love you aria.

geeogree : So I'm ranting, and I just wanna vent. You're not obligated to respond. Let me vent out my minor problems, instead of posting here and mocking me about it.

legacyme3 : And I'm ranting. I'm agitated, so I'm gonna let it out. Like I said to Geeo, you're not obligated to respond.

Well, holidays aren't that great anyways. People try to make them exciting when they should be relaxing, and in the end they wind up not planning correctly and it's a mess. Moreover you still have to be around the same people you have to be around on normal days.

xxAriaxx : mocking? Oh honey that wasn't even close to mocking.

However, I will grant you that I was not obligated to read or respond to this. However, I am well within my right to respond however I please.

Barathemos : way to suck up to the admins girlfriend

geeogree : It's called doing the right thing.



No need to make everything go downhill, you can just be nice.

To put it blunt and simply for 2 people on here. Sometimes family members can be sure donkey-holes even if they're the ones handling everything and not you. That's like telling a person with depression or parkingsons to stop being such a downer/pessimist or acting like a 5 year old child on caffeine and control their body. You don't know how the events went down and how may have affected them, I never paid to go to a family reunion but after having my kneecap dislocate (like how happened before on previous thread) I was made out to look like a douchbag by others in my family, trying to get out of being with them. As if I wanted to be in pain for long while and not even be able to walk around?!  

Also what first world problems today can you whine about without looking like a child. Especially when 70% of it is dealing with gender/color these days. Why not just ban posting, period? Next time we see a post about Vizzed struggling or a family member passing maybe we should also state "cry me a freakin river bunny boy, you're not the only one with issues in the world". 

sonicthehedgehog57 :

[eye roll]

Yup.... complaining about a vacation is the same as racism/sexism and gender confusion. Great comparison!

Also.... I'll say it again:

"If you want to have fun on your vacation then have fun! Your vacation is only ruined because you are letting it get ruined."

Whether or not you are enjoying anything is up to you. You can either let all this stuff ruin your life or you can be happy in spite of it.

geeogree : And since when did I say the negativity going on in my vacation is a "first world problem?" 

Not to mention, you don't even know if I ever even had a say in going on this vacation or not. Did I actually wanna go?

Also: way to suck up to the admins girlfriend

And that came from you, a man who's married with kids, and should have more maturity than a lot of other members on the site. 

So I'm complaining about a vacation I didn't even wanna go to in the first place. I have worst stuff going on that you don't even know about, but am I going to make a thread about all of that? Of course I can't, cuz look at how you are responding to this. 

Pics of the dress pls (with you in it optionally)

You didn't say it, I did. I labeled your problems as first world problems.

And the face that you are complaining about being forced to go on vacation simply reinforces what I said. First world problem! "Boo hoo I was forced to go on vacation!" Honestly!

Uh oh, my maturity level isn't high enough on an internet forum for your standards? Do you believe that the way I act in here is how I act elsewhere? Are you that naive?

You have worse stuff going on? So does everyone else. And my response to this thread in no way prevents you from posting anything else. If you posted about a real problem I might be nicer in my response or wouldn't respond at all out of respect for you actually posting about a real problem.

Careful planning is everything when it comes to vacations. Also, it sounds like everyone relied too much on their phones for communicating things. I have a cell phone and I love it, but that would make me so stressed I'd run into a wall while I'm talking on accident.

It's good that you were able to go on a vacation, but everyone has rough spots in their vacations no matter what their family's like. I'm glad you were able to tell us about it and I hope you have some more fun moments before heading back.

By the way, nice job summoning me right XD People still aren't used to the +

FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT


Anyway, I can see both sides. I'm leaning more towards one side, but I'm not going to say which one. You might be able to guess yourself, but whatever. Ari, you should be grateful that you could even AFFORD to walk into Disney in the first place. That's something my family won't be able to do for a long time, let alone go on any vacation at all. One thing that bothered me was the part where you were getting frustrated because your mom didn't go to the bank to get money for you. You're an adult now. You should be using your own money for things like this. If money isn't available to you, then oh well. Like I said, be grateful you walked into Disney at all.

You were focusing on the negatives of your vacation, and I think that's what made you feel like crap the entire time. I don't care what people vent about, they can vent about major or minor things if they want. But some of the stuff you're venting about is kinda dumb. Acknowledge the positives.

Pacman+Mariofan :
Lexatom :

To be honest... I actually didn't really wanna go on vacation. It's prob cuz it's with my family, and I know how they are better than anyone else. Also, Lex, I can't earn my own money cuz my mother doesn't allow me to work, so I have to rely on her and the rest of my family to do that. If I could, I'd happily work and earn my own money, but given how my entire family is, that's not going to happen. 

Also, what got me really ticked was the last thing I mentioned, about my dress and spending. I was calmed down after leaving the park, but when the mother said that to me, I got really boiling angry, so I just needed to vent out. 

Don't get me wrong, going to Florida sounds great, but I'd like to have my own choice on whether I wanna go or not, and if so, who I actually wanna go with. I had a great time today when I wasn't with my family at all. 

geeogree :
Come on... srsly?
Its a rant.... regardless if she is paying for it, doesn't mean there can't be problems with it.

Enough of this nonsense... 

Vanelan : oh I'm sorry. Was my opinion wrong? Am I not allowed to disagree that her problems are as bad as her post was making them out to be? Should I simply not post if my opinion might offend someone? Or maybe I should save my disagreeing posts for the debate forum.

Maybe by agreeing with her that her vacation was bad will somehow magically cure her of all her problems!

also,

"srsly?"

are you the admin?

geeogree : I'm not even upset. That was gold.