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What is your opinion on interracial relationships?
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I like it. BUT it can go either way for you. There has been people who have suffered from it good or bad wise. That's why I think there are some people out there who would rather not marry and know the joy of it. Because they wouldn't want to go through the same fate as that person. But if you do take on that relationship prepare for a ride you may not be able to come off from. Anything can happen when you least expect it. Also there are some people who hates relationship like this. I don't blame them because they have their reasons. Everyone always has a certain reason which is understandable. ^^
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I don't see why there would be any problem with it and I don't get why some people do If two people want to be together regardless of their appearance I don't think norms and the general public's expectations on what's right and not should affect their ability to do so. That said some people might have sexual preferences to where they're only attracted to people of a certain race, I've actually heard people call that racist but I just find that stupid since that's just the way a person is and there's not really much you can do to affect that. As long as both are consenting people and they aren't trying to infringe on other people's right to be with who they want then who are you to judge or to tell them what they should and shouldn't do?
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Considering I'm in an interracial relationship I must be all for them
I'm actually not a huge fan of them if they involve people who are racially AND culturally different. My wife was born and raised in the US so culturally we are extremely similar. I think people who are born and raised in vastly different cultures are going to have a much more difficult time getting along. Race has a lot less to do with it than culture. |
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I honestly don't see a problem with interracial relationships. The worst that can happen is if you have racist family/friends and they judge you for it, but even still they don't matter. I can't see why this would be a problem.
Judge them as a person, not their race. |
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I'm with geeo on this one. I've recently visited the family of my cousin's wife, and they are German, Europeans like us, but still are culturally different than us. Of course, my cousin's wife has been working in Spain since several years ago, and has somewhat become accustomed to this new culture of ours.
After all, you must spend your life with whoever you want to. However, you must make sure that you have a lot in common, and that your differences don't outweight your similarities, regardless of race. As for myself, I'm rather unsure if I would be in for an interracial relationship, but well, I'm unsure if I would be in a relationship at all. I do get along well with the Japanese culture, so probably that would be my best choice. |
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I don't really see how this could become a problem unless the cultures are vastly different or if you have racist family members. If you love your significant other, and the significant other loves you back, there is no reason to be ashamed of having an interracial relationship. That choice is up to the both of them. And if you do in fact have family members that don't approve, It's still not their choice.
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I don't really see it as any of my concern regarding who other people are in relationships with. Man, woman, race, etc. Doesn't really affect me in any way.
With regards to my own personal dating habits, I don't really look at race as any sort of a factor in if I want to be in a relationship with them or not. More so if I can actually stand being around them, we have things in common and I'm attracted to them. |
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Jordanv78 puts it best and i can't believe this is being discussed in 2015 i would think this wouldn't even matter now a days
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Honestly I find different races... very attractive. I see nothing wrong with it. My mother always told me to never bring a black guy home... obviously she has a problem with it and don't even get me started on my dad... not like his opinion matters anyways.
Right now I am in a relationship with somebody that is the same race as me but if he was black.. asian.. hispanic idc what color he was I would still love him for him. |
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I don't really have an opinion on it.
An interracial relationship is just like any other relationship to me. Same goes with gender, and so on. It doesn't matter if you are White, Chinese, Black, or an alien. If you are interesting, and you like me, then odds are, I'll like you. |
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It's kinda the same with any other kind of relationship, in my opinion. If the ship is meant to float and sail, so be it!
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I'm okay with it . Especially since I like Asian and White girls anyways. I just have a higher chance of finding a girl who likes anime and video games like me imo, and because those are the most people that I see as a different race daily.
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I don't really care about it much to be honest. To each their own. It really doesn't bother me if people decide to date someone of a different/ same race, sex, or sexuality. I don't know their story and I'm in no position to pass judgement on them for the way they live their life (That's a boring job anyway).
Spend your life with whomever you like, and don't settle for a relationship you aren't truly happy with. Life isn't long enough to merely settle for a mediocrity. As long as you are in a relationship you actually care about, then more power to you. Live and let live and don't pass judgement on others for their choices because it's not your job and you more than likely don't know their story anyway. As cliche as this may sound, life really is too short to be spent worrying about how other people live their lives. Quite frankly, I could care less. (last edited by Razor-987 on 03-06-16 04:48 PM) |
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This is neither an easy question to answer or a question that we want answered.
I do not really have an issue with it but I would urge caution and to ask themselves a few important questions. 1. Are they willing to go through the whispering behind their backs about their relationship? 2. If they want kids,how will they raise them and answer their question about why they are different? 3. Are they willing to teach their child how to tolerate the less than intelligent questions or barbs thrown their way? If the answer is no to any of those,DO NOT GO ANY FURTHER. If they will not accept these conditions,they should break it off. Why you may ask? Because the world wants everyone into a nice and neat cookie cutter mold and if they do not fit into that mold perfectly,they will be targeted. Trust me,the kids will ask or wonder to themselves why they are different. |
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Bro, how is this even a serious question... I mean, in any healthy relationship there is usually either strong physical or psychological attraction, a relationship being seen as interracial? Why is the race even at all worth caring about? Do you like someone for some reason? Cool. Do they like you for some reason? Also cool.
I guess I mean I don't have feelings about interracial relationships, I don't think it should matter at all. |
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I personally don't find people of other races attractive.
I personally wouldn't date someone of a different race, but I do not have a problem with other people being in a relationship with.. anyone they want to be in a relationship with. It's none of my business! Everyone has different tastes, so like me.. I don't find them attractive so I wont be in a relationship with one; Other people who do find them attractive can be in a relationship with one if they desire to! I think people should be able to be love who they love without having to be ridiculed. |
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If they're a living, breathing, eating human being (emphasis on human being, and maybe breathing), then it doesn't matter to me. If anyone finds me attractive, I'm good.
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I have never dated someone of my own race. (I am a Puerto Rican, but I have a Caucasian skin tone). I have dated Asians, Caucasians, and African Americans. I have never dated a hispanic or latino, though this has nothing to do with race - more so that they are less than 1% population where I live.
So, with this, you now know I am not bias. I think people are very compelled to say "This shouldn't be a problem any more" because that's the politically correct thing to say. Me being me, I of course am about to play devil's advocate. From what I've heard (and from personal experience), family is nice to your face - but I honestly haven't met a single interracial couple who didn't say their family wasn't at least a little against it. Most reasons, in my opinion, are non-logical. Though, one reason that I totally agree with and I think should be fully considered is the following: the kids. Now, let's take the political correctness blinder off for a moment. Some combos of races create really cute kids! Sometimes, though, the kids get ridiculed because they fit in neither one clique or the other. If you live in a city where it's a melting pot, then I would imagine the kid would have a much easier time. Though in say a small town with one dominant race, I feel like it would be hard on the kid. I'm not just saying this because it's what I think would happen, I'm saying this from experience. Not towards me, my skin complexion was camouflage where I used to live (according to wiki, it's 98% white). Trust me, the mixed children had a difficult time compared to others. Anyways, these are my 2 cents, sorry for once again making a controversial devil's advocate response - I just like to invoke thoughts! |
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I personally...eh. I most likely wouldn't date someone that wasn't my race. First of all I don't know many people that well to where that would even be a question. But I am not exactly against people who do decide to date someone outside their race. I mean, we're all just people in the end aren't we? But from people I know in interracial relationships; it is hard on their kids. People from neither race accept them as really one of their own. Leaving said kid feeling left out. Then there are the racist people who will harass all of them. If anything, I just couldn't put my own kids through that, you know? Everything you do affects everyone around you whether you notice or not.
At the end of the day I just see them as any other relationship. It makes them happy, that's fine. It will be a bit harder on them, granted. But I can think of a trillion more problems more important than "Jim is dating a girl who's skin is different". I don't judge people who are in a relationship like that. Who am I to judge anyway? Nobody is perfect. |
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