I'm not sure that all society finds arrogance cute. I'll agree that the arrogance level in America has gone way up over the years. I think its just something that people like about a person that most people think is an odd trait, we've all have some of those traits. But beyond that I can't really help out.

Can you give some examples of cute arrogance?

Okay I get ya, thanks you the reply.

I'll agree that some of the most popular people in real life/online do come off being arrogant. But then again they kind of have to come off as arrogant or else nobody will "follow them".

Lets take for example a local politician running for office. Now when you study Political Science you end up learning that you HAVE to come off as knowing what is in the best interest for society even if it comes out of arrogant. If you don't do this, then the people who you hope and count on to vote for you on election won't vote for you, since they want someone who knows what they are talking about/know. Now of course nobody has the answers to the problems of society, but we have to act this way in order for people to follow you.

Another example would be Jesus and his miracles (I know your a religious person and I don't wish to turn this into a religion arguement, but I'm just trying to estabish examples.) Now I'm not going to come out and say that Jesus was an arrogant person (we can debate it, but it will turn into a heated arugement and might be subject to Perma bans); but if Jesus didn't sell to the people he wished to save that he had all the answers, then would they still follow him (again we can debate it, but I want to avoid it, so you can disregard this paragraph and just consentrate on paragraph 2).

As to what you say about emotions being stupid and being attacked by society, is that its true.

For example when young boys are growing up, parents teach them (either directly or indirectly) that showing emotions is wrong. This is different then lets say young girls, who parents tend to teach them that showing emotions is normal. If you take a Child Psychology or Behavioral Psychology course, they go into some depth on this.

Hope I helped!

People find arrogance attractive because it means a person has a self-confidence, a certain style that they treat themselves and the world around them.  Arrogence speaks of control over a situation.  Control is the same as power and people like power.  So, arrogant people are powerful and therefore attractive.

I don't care for some arrogant people. Others are completely hilarious.  I love H. Jon Benjamin, the guy who does the voice for Archer and Bob's Burgers.  He's perfect.

I think Dane Cook is a dbag and his arrogance isn't funny in the least.  He's not at all funny.

I don't find any kind humorous or cute in the slightest.  Why is it okay for some people to be arrogant and for others not to be?  Are some people superior and somehow 'deserve' the forgiveness?

And most people don't like other people having power over them.  It's pretty natural to resent someone telling you what to do.  So if arrogance is cute because it demonstrates power.......

Well my question stands.

Society is going down the toilet! Education is seen as "uncool" or "lame" and the kids are walking around with there paints around there knees, I dress out of the ordinary but I do cover my butt with clothing so you cant see my underwear!