Ok ranting again
Guys who treat their women like s*** are the worst kind of people!
They really give good guys a bad name!
like the other day at work i heard two girls talking
:"uhg men are such horny pigs! they never care what people think!"
just got me thinking, how much i hate getting the title of "horny pig man f*#$ tard"

its so stupid how guys treat women! Like we're better than them???
and same with white people treating black people like crap too....

people in this world are messed up... i dont see the point in treating anyone like crap.
theres no point in it, "Make me a sammitch hoe! -slaps-"
"YES SIR >-<"
"thanks b**** -slaps-"
-.-
the world needs something

I agree it is terrible, but it's just how people are. They will always treat some people badly for no good reason. And it isn't usually just a one-way thing. Some men treat women badly, and some women treat men badly. Some white people treat black people badly, and some black people treat white people badly. Ultimately, rather than trying to solve these large social problems with any kind of organized action, I find it best to just focus on treating everyone how they should be treated on an individual basis instead of by race,sex,creed, or anything else, and convincing others to do the same. Thinking about things based on groups of people may not always be completely inaccurate, but I find looking at every issue and person on an individual basis much more constructive.

Since racial and gender equality are still relatively new concepts, most of what you are describing is remnants of the old system that are taking a long time to die... as well as backlash from the targeted groups. The women that are jerks to men usually do it because of the image they have of men being jerks. Same with black to white because of white to black. It is stupid and archaic, though hopefully if people keep acting as Morsalbus describes, it will finally become a thing of the past.

Unfortunately, women can mistreat men too Anyone who mistreats another human being is just disturbed in my opinion. I wish more people would care about other people's feelings, but sometimes that isn't the case. But I do agree, it's unfair to think every guy is that way, cause all guys are not like some who are jerks.

10 to 1 says those girls complaining are still with the guy(s).

Maybe I'm sexist or stereotypical but that is my observation. If you want a perfect relationship with no abuse, my advice is to not get involved with one in first place. Its bad enough to complain about it but to go back for more? That is what usually happens.

All I have to say is... the f***?

Honestly, I don't see many relationships like this since most of the people I know are good people. Surround yourself with a good crowd and it's easier to avoid these types of situations.

legacyme3 : well i see it at work cant really avoid it there

legacyme3 : What sucks about that is some people can fool you when you first meet them and pretend to be good people. But I do agree, if you find yourself in that situation, get out of it as soon as you can.

legacyme3 : I believe that he is not talking about his experiences but just the people in general. I have also seen this but it is not really my experience.

Well I agree this really is quite dumb the people who treat their women like total s***. I also dislike the fact that there is many guys in my class that are man whores. I hate that because if you are not going to stay loyal then just GTFO. The girls who they are dating must see something but from what I can tell they give little to no respect. They will sometimes stare at other girls while walking or talking with their girl friends. Tool much? I think so.

There is my little rant on the subject.

I've known a few guys like that. One of them just didn't really respect the girls' personal space. He didn't get any respect at all from the other guys on the team.

There's also a guy at one of the colleges I used to go to. He's kinda rude, but his girlfriend isn't bothered by it. She treats him the same way he treats her and they both mean it as a joke, so it's all good.

fightorace : I agree. And yes the cycle can be broken, if they have some sort of positive influence. I think you hit the head with the hammer, so to speak.

Yes, this is something that I have seen a few times, but not altogether that often.

In fact, it's been well over a year since the last time I've seen something like this.

In my opinion, women who think all men are pigs have never met a nice man, or they don't count their guy friends as good men. It all comes down to ignorance or closed-mindedness. A woman who has never met a good man is naturally going to think they are all evil. However, a woman who has met many good men, then is harmed by a bad man will sometimes say that all men are evil based on that one experience. That is sheer closed-mindedness at its worst. I myself have known many disgusting men, but I do not push that image onto every man I see.  To do so is ridiculous in my opinion unless you've been surrounded by nothing but evil men your whole life. I'd say those girls who were calling all men pigs probably fall into the closed-minded category.

The idea of feminism (that women and men have equal rights) is actually relatively new in the world, in fact many countries in the world do not have any sense of gender equality at all. Unfortunately there is a lot of the sexist mindset still embedded in our global culture... Men who mistreat women based on their gender essentially have the idea that women are weaker or inferior to them. As mentioned above it can be effectively stopped by reaching out to new generations.

I've known a few guys like that, although they are not so bad as to be abusive. Honestly it is their loss. If you think about it, they might never be capable of having a truly rewarding two-way relationship. It's a sad situation to be so miserable you have to bully others, really..

I 100% agree with you. I can't even comprehend how mean guys are to women. It's the most ignorant and most cruel thing I can think of other than rape or murder.

I watched Real Time With Bill Maher today and he made an interesting observation. The places where women are excluded or hidden tend to be the most [fudged] up places. He cited the Catholic Church, the Middle East, and football as examples. Although many of these can be argued, I will say that he is right that things are generally more tolerable and moderated better with women around. 

I think that men treat women like s*** because they know that they can. So many men treat women like s*** in different ways. Some men cheat because they know that there will be someone else down the road if their girl finds out. Guys like to change things up and explore different options. It is in men's DNA to act like animals when they are young and try to get with as many girls as they can. When the guy matures a bit and finds someone he likes he will settle down for a relationship no matter how short or long it may turn out to be. Other men abuse their women because many of them grew up seeing their fathers do it. Other men are just plain garbage and it is up to women to find someone better and not settle for a piece of crap. I myself have never hit a woman and I never plan to. I think it is awful and it makes you seem like  a total b****. If you need to take aggression out go join a boxing gym or something along those lines.

I agree it sucks that women are treated like that. It is my belief that one should have the utmost respect for women and treat her higher than himself in a relationship.

Heh. Funny. It just so happens that all the couples in my school are like this.

Of course, the boys don't order around the girls, but they never say that the look good or anything. They paratically ignore them while in school, but then outside of school the boys hook up with the girls.....it's like the girls are sex objects or something...i

I hate it.