I would say I never stopped loving them!

I would take it. I'm more mature, she may be more mature, and frankly (despite what some other people had to say) she really wasn't a bad person. Sure, I did not care for her taste in music but she was very attractive, the first woman that I ever loved, etc. Still, I finally got over her. However, I am not as addicted to finding romance as I used to be. It would be very interesting.

UPDATE: Pardon this, I seem to forget many key details. I would say no thank you. I'm doing good right now, no need to jeopardize my independence.

I would say: No, thanks
Mostly because I was the one who wanted to end it (the reasons are a bit complicated, so please don't ask).
Besides, I rarely do the same "mistake" twice

I wouldn't.
I'm extremely happy in the relationship I'm in right now, and I kinda walked out on my last ex. (we never did officially break up, I just moved to a new school and stopped talking to him) Harsh, huh?

Totts : I guess it would depend on the situation and relationship. In most cases relationships can be complicated and it isn’t always easy to just turn affections and feelings for someone off especially if the relationship was a long one that stretched out a significant period of time.

It would also depend on what the circumstances were that led to the relationship being estranged or outright broken up. If there wasn’t anything major attached to a break up (Lying, infidelity, deceiving etc.) and there is genuine feelings on both sides then I guess it would be worth giving a second chance.

If there are trust issues caused by one cheating and or lying on the other than I think it would probably be best to deal with that issue first before getting back together… it is always better to do things that way so you don’t end up selling yourself short if someone takes you for granted.

I know that I would take a second chance with a few of my past relationships if given the opportunity but thankfully, none of those ended as a result of cheating…

sophielove23 : I do think that it is kind of harsh but I don’t judge, it all boils down to the particular situation. If your ex treated you badly and took you for granted than it probably serves your ex right by having you walk out on him. It is never a good thing however, to just walk out on somebody you may end up regretting it at some point. I think you would have been better off by simply saying that you weren’t happy and that you wanted to move on but as I said I don’t judge. I hope everything works out for you.

Totts : Too late...he already has.
Actually we both accepted each other back but I didn't make the first move.
In fact were together right now in this very room.

I would tell them they can take that "chance" and shove it

JigSaw : I like the way you think.

Anyways, my last relationship was kinda rough, so I'd decline. I really wouldn't see it as a
"chance", we both agreed on breaking up. And it wasn't an easy break-up... I'd rather just stay clear.

I would have to tell her that there is not a chance in hell (Might seem harsh but as it is said, Once a cheater always a cheater.) She screwed me up when she did what she did. I got over her and it would only happen again if I gave her another chance.

I would say no. You cheated on me. Go die.

I think it's quite funny how everyone is saying "no." But, I can't help and agree.
The last guy I was with cheated on me with another girl, and apparently a good portion of my friends knew. I guess that I was upset not one got the guts to tell me except for the girl who he cheated on me with... A girl from my church, who knew I was dating him. I wasn't mad at her, oddly enough, since she had the guts to confess... I wouldn't take him back because he wasn't man enough to break up with me before finding another girl.

bvd1022 : Well it's not like he treated me bad or cheated on me or anything. He was just kinda too mushy and lovey-dovey. I just wasn't into that. Never had time to myself.

sophielove23 : Oh so basically what you’re saying is he smothered you? I know how that can be on both ends ironically… It’s hard for some people to give someone they care about space sometimes especially if their going through a rough situation and that person who may be smothering a bit too much doesn’t know when to back off a bit.


I still think you should have told him how you felt. It’s good that you spared his feelings but, it probably did more harm than good because he likely wondered why things ended the way they did. As I said before I don’t judge but if it were me I would have said something.

I'd get angry and ask them what right they had to do that when it should be me who should be deciding this sort of thing since they wronge me...

Wow that brought out a nasty side of me...

Honestly I would tell them to shove it because I have my dream boy now.

My answer:

"... But I hate you."

Well, I don't really feel hatred, or anything else, towards her any more, but I felt that way for so long it just feels right to say that I hate her. I mean, I acknowledge that she treated me poorly, broke my heart, left me for another guy (which is NOT better than being cheated on, by the way. She told me about making out with other guys sometimes and that actually didn't bother me so much.), but I just don't feel anything towards her, as if she did all of this stuff to another person. In a way, she DID do it to another person, the guy I was months ago. The 'Me' I am now could never love someone like her. Bottom line is that she isn't a part of my life any more and I'd like things to stay that way.

There are a few exes from my past where when I see them now they have gotten pretty hot...haha Seriously though any of my exes that I was in a serious relationship with I would not want back...no way.

When you go through a relationship with a person over the years you learn a lot of things about your partner, and a lot of times that information is not favorable

Nah, I'm good with my relationship as it is.

My last one was kind of complicated to explain, let's just say this is for the best, I still love her to death, but as a best friend, and nothing more. Thank god for mutual splits. That said, if my girlfriend and I somehow broke up (We aren't going to), I'd think more about it. She's still special though, and will make some guy really happy.

I would definitely accept, but i dont think that is gonna happen any time soon.. more like ever

I would tell them to burn in hell. they had there chance.

Honestly.... I would be grateful beyond all hell for that chance. I f***ed up pretty bad with her when we broke up -yes i cheated on her-. But in doing that... i learned a lot about myself and realized honestly that i could never cheat on her again. I loved her honestly to much to ever want to hurt her like that again. I basically grew up so to speak and realized just how much i really did care for her. It would be something i never take for granted again... ever.