Maybe its mentally maybe it's phsically, even if your siblings trip you or your parents scream at you for something you did not do. It could be numerous amounts of things that you feel people in your life do to you, say to you or honestly just stop speaking to you.





Bintsy <33

My 'dad', and I use that term very lightly, used to hit me quite often. I would go to school with bruises but never told anyone what had happened. He was also pretty horrible to my mom and younger siblings, but he never hit them, just abused them verbally. Crying myself to sleep was a regular occurrence. I wish I had spoke up about it back then, but I was so scared to. 

my girlfriend abuses me all day everyday hits me when i do nothing and hits me when i do something lol sad life

Fishergirl7 : I'm sorry you have to deal with that.. I have many similar stories about my dad.. hes an abusive alcholic and he mentally abused my brother his whole life then when I got old enough he started mentally abusing me and would say horrible things and act like he was actually going to hit us physically. My mom stayed in marriage with him for 18 years walking on eggshells as she says.. it was longer for her and I wish my family never had to go through this. I do still try to keep contact with my dad it's just hard sometimes you know.






haunter923 : I'm sorry that your gf does that to you.. I knew somebody once who I worked with/a guy who his gf hit him all the time as well, he came to work with a pretty messed up nose one time. I really hope you guys can figure out what's going on and that your relationship works out. An abusive relationship is the worst. My best wishes and prayers to you.

Btw this post has more errors in it than I usually have because I'm having to use my laptop without my second screen at this time and I can't read what I'm typing to well because my screen is cracked hopefully it's not to bad XD.

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Bintsy<33

Bintsy : I'm so sorry to hear that you and your family had to go through all of that. My relationship with my father is pretty strained too now and he know's it, but I don't really want one with him anyway. 

I feel very extremely lucky compared to you people. My parents are lovely. Not compassionate but they do a very good job. And nobody else abuses me for real. So they closest thing that comes near it is when some of my friends do stuff like smack me with rulers or push me or wittingly call me ugly or stupid but that's what friends do these days apparently. Nothing to complain about though.

No. I have been somewhat bullied and taunted by "ex-friends" before, but that's it.

Thank god my parents are wonderful parents. When they planned to have kids they really committed to giving it their all. They basically spend all of their time and effort trying to be good parents. I have been in arguments with them, and I have seen my parents get extremely angry, but it's because they're only human. They've never hit me.

If a friend hit me seriously, I'd hit them back. I hit my friends jokingly, like a light punch to the side or something, but nothing hard. It's all in good fun, and they know that.

As for family, my dad is a terrible person. My mom has an 8 times higher chance to have a stroke than a normal person, and he still pushes her. Never physically, but it could still kill her. I'm pretty sure that he has a life insurance policy out on her, but I'm not sure how to find out for certain.

My dad has always been awful to us. When I was 6, 7 or 8, he sat me and my brother down to tell us that it was okay to admit that our mom forcued us to say bad things about him and take her side. That went on for 2 hours and left me and my brother in tears.

Shortly before Halloween this year, he actually grabbed me and pinned me against the fridge. He started going on about how I bowed up(I shrugged at him, I didn't bow up) and how I thought I was a badass. When I got free, I went to the front door to leave. "Don't you go through that freakin' door! You're not leaving!" I opened the door and started to leave and he tried to close it when I was only partly out, and grabbed my collar on my shirt to pull me back in. That bastard left a mark around nearly the entirety of my neck that lasted nearly 48 hours after. The messed up part is that I never hit him, never got physical with him, even when he deserved it.

Rasenganfan2 : I'm really sorry you had to go through that.. that is horrible. I hope one day he realizes how bad he is damaging you and your family.




Bintsy<33

um...haha ..not me...my family and my friends are always nice to me <3333 we may fight some times but in the end of the day were still friends but to be honest my dad can get angry easily and he dose yell at me some times...but i don't hate him or anything i fell that my life is really good . ...but i read some posts here... people sure can have a hard life but it will get better soon for sure <33333  

No, they don't.  I respect my family and friends and usually get the same respect back. I joke around a lot but never intentionally say anything hurtful or inconsiderate.

I'm really sorry for those of you in abusive relationships. I hope things improve.

Yeah, it is the same for me, I resect them and I get the same respect back, so no one is abused or beaten. It is the same deal with my friends also, I wouldn't be friends with them if they abused me or beat me up. We joke around a lot, but no one takes it seriously. So we joke around and we goof off, nothing else more to it really.

Rasenganfan2 : that is tough to hear man, hopefully he realizes the effects of the damage he has done to your family like bintsy said.

No, my family doesn't abuse me in any way. I don't really have any real life friends, but if I did I'd make sure that none of them are abusive towards me. My dad was a bit verbally abusive towards me a few times, but I don't need to worry about that because he's not around anymore. I don't remember anything specific for what he said, which is probably for the better.