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03-05-13 03:33 PM
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Can anyone help me with this situation?  See, I like this girl but whenever I see her, my shyness overcomes me and I won't go up to her and talk to her.  Does anyone have any suggestions for what I should do to face my fears and talk to her?
Can anyone help me with this situation?  See, I like this girl but whenever I see her, my shyness overcomes me and I won't go up to her and talk to her.  Does anyone have any suggestions for what I should do to face my fears and talk to her?
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Go and talk to her.  Compliment her on her earrings and ask where she got them.  Get the answer.  say, "cool" and walk away.  That's all you have to do to break the ice.  After that it's easy.

Make a move.  Man up!
Go and talk to her.  Compliment her on her earrings and ask where she got them.  Get the answer.  say, "cool" and walk away.  That's all you have to do to break the ice.  After that it's easy.

Make a move.  Man up!
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you don't even have to propose to her in order to just talk to her. Even if you have to talk about something stupid like school work or weather or whatever else you can find just do that.

It just takes time to become confident talking to someone you like but once you get through the first time it becomes easier and easier. Just don't get ahead of yourself and ask her out before you have any idea if she likes you at all.
you don't even have to propose to her in order to just talk to her. Even if you have to talk about something stupid like school work or weather or whatever else you can find just do that.

It just takes time to become confident talking to someone you like but once you get through the first time it becomes easier and easier. Just don't get ahead of yourself and ask her out before you have any idea if she likes you at all.
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DJ2536 : just go up and talk about anything complement her then walk away and if she come up and talks to you then BAM there u go
DJ2536 : just go up and talk about anything complement her then walk away and if she come up and talks to you then BAM there u go
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Find out if you have anything in common and try to start a conversation about that.
Find out if you have anything in common and try to start a conversation about that.
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You are not alone DJ2536; many guys have that problem. But now is the time to trough it out the window. I'm not asking you to get rid of your shyness, I'm saying I think you can overcome it when you need it to be done.

Trust me, you will lose great opportunity with girls if you keep doing that, so you just need to man up and do it. Honestly, I find the easiest thing to do is meet her in her group of friends and say "hi, my name is ______" and then have a conversation about something you have in common. Keep it short.

If you DO already know her, then think of something you need to ask/tell her. Maybe it's an invitation to a get together you are having. Whatever it is, just be casual, go up to her like she's anyone else and just say what you need and either 1. start talking to her about something you have in common or she likes, or 2. make sure you have a follow up way to see her (invite her somewhere, or get her number or something, all very casually).

You just need to take a deep breath, KNOW that you have nothing to loose, and say "read, set, go".
You are not alone DJ2536; many guys have that problem. But now is the time to trough it out the window. I'm not asking you to get rid of your shyness, I'm saying I think you can overcome it when you need it to be done.

Trust me, you will lose great opportunity with girls if you keep doing that, so you just need to man up and do it. Honestly, I find the easiest thing to do is meet her in her group of friends and say "hi, my name is ______" and then have a conversation about something you have in common. Keep it short.

If you DO already know her, then think of something you need to ask/tell her. Maybe it's an invitation to a get together you are having. Whatever it is, just be casual, go up to her like she's anyone else and just say what you need and either 1. start talking to her about something you have in common or she likes, or 2. make sure you have a follow up way to see her (invite her somewhere, or get her number or something, all very casually).

You just need to take a deep breath, KNOW that you have nothing to loose, and say "read, set, go".
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Like many people said, just go up and talk to her. Find something that both of you like or compliment her about something (just as long as it doesn't sound perverted or taken the wrong way). You'll do find, just take a deep breath and "push" yourself to do it.
Like many people said, just go up and talk to her. Find something that both of you like or compliment her about something (just as long as it doesn't sound perverted or taken the wrong way). You'll do find, just take a deep breath and "push" yourself to do it.
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